If not set the apply will error if a resource has been manually edited.
This changes all apply calls to use force ownership.
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## Summary by CodeRabbit
## Release Notes
* **Bug Fixes**
* Fixed resource ownership handling across multiple controllers to
ensure proper claim and management of Kubernetes resources during
deployment and reconciliation operations.
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The proxy container defaults `--management-url` to
`https://api.netbird.io`, so on self-hosted NetBird the proxy talks to
SaaS and rejects the setup key as invalid.
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## Summary by CodeRabbit
* **New Features**
* Added support for configuring a management URL for the cluster proxy
service.
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