Update controller-gen version and switch to using go tool (#170)

This makes updating of the versions a lot easier. Also we need to update
the controller gen version to support apply configuration.

go.mod

@@ -27,6 +27,7 @@ require (
 	github.com/davecgh/go-spew v1.1.2-0.20180830191138-d8f796af33cc // indirect
 	github.com/emicklei/go-restful/v3 v3.13.0 // indirect
 	github.com/evanphx/json-patch/v5 v5.9.11 // indirect
+	github.com/fatih/color v1.18.0 // indirect
 	github.com/fsnotify/fsnotify v1.9.0 // indirect
 	github.com/fxamacker/cbor/v2 v2.9.0 // indirect
 	github.com/go-logr/zapr v1.3.0 // indirect
@@ -34,13 +35,17 @@ require (
 	github.com/go-openapi/jsonreference v0.21.0 // indirect
 	github.com/go-openapi/swag v0.23.1 // indirect
 	github.com/go-task/slim-sprig/v3 v3.0.0 // indirect
+	github.com/gobuffalo/flect v1.0.3 // indirect
 	github.com/google/btree v1.1.3 // indirect
 	github.com/google/gnostic-models v0.7.0 // indirect
 	github.com/google/go-cmp v0.7.0 // indirect
 	github.com/google/pprof v0.0.0-20260115054156-294ebfa9ad83 // indirect
+	github.com/inconshreveable/mousetrap v1.1.0 // indirect
 	github.com/josharian/intern v1.0.0 // indirect
 	github.com/json-iterator/go v1.1.12 // indirect
 	github.com/mailru/easyjson v0.9.1 // indirect
+	github.com/mattn/go-colorable v0.1.13 // indirect
+	github.com/mattn/go-isatty v0.0.20 // indirect
 	github.com/modern-go/concurrent v0.0.0-20180306012644-bacd9c7ef1dd // indirect
 	github.com/modern-go/reflect2 v1.0.3-0.20250322232337-35a7c28c31ee // indirect
 	github.com/munnerz/goautoneg v0.0.0-20191010083416-a7dc8b61c822 // indirect
@@ -52,6 +57,7 @@ require (
 	github.com/prometheus/common v0.66.1 // indirect
 	github.com/prometheus/procfs v0.16.1 // indirect
 	github.com/sirupsen/logrus v1.9.3 // indirect
+	github.com/spf13/cobra v1.10.2 // indirect
 	github.com/spf13/pflag v1.0.10 // indirect
 	github.com/x448/float16 v0.8.4 // indirect
 	go.uber.org/multierr v1.11.0 // indirect
@@ -74,11 +80,15 @@ require (
 	gopkg.in/go-jose/go-jose.v2 v2.6.3 // indirect
 	gopkg.in/inf.v0 v0.9.1 // indirect
 	gopkg.in/ldap.v2 v2.5.1 // indirect
+	gopkg.in/yaml.v2 v2.4.0 // indirect
 	gopkg.in/yaml.v3 v3.0.1 // indirect
 	k8s.io/apiextensions-apiserver v0.35.0 // indirect
+	k8s.io/code-generator v0.35.0 // indirect
+	k8s.io/gengo/v2 v2.0.0-20250922181213-ec3ebc5fd46b // indirect
 	k8s.io/klog/v2 v2.130.1 // indirect
 	k8s.io/kube-openapi v0.0.0-20250910181357-589584f1c912 // indirect
 	k8s.io/utils v0.0.0-20260108192941-914a6e750570 // indirect
+	sigs.k8s.io/controller-tools v0.20.1 // indirect
 	sigs.k8s.io/json v0.0.0-20250730193827-2d320260d730 // indirect
 	sigs.k8s.io/randfill v1.0.0 // indirect
 	sigs.k8s.io/structured-merge-diff/v6 v6.3.2 // indirect
@@ -86,3 +96,5 @@ require (
 )
 
 replace github.com/dexidp/dex => github.com/dexidp/dex v2.13.0+incompatible
+
+tool sigs.k8s.io/controller-tools/cmd/controller-gen